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Abi Sims
Dec 11, 20245 min read
Navigating the Holiday Season with Mental Health & Healthy Boundaries
It can be challenging to navigate the holiday season in a way that prioritizes our mental health and boundaries, but I'm here to tell you th
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Bridgette Inukiha'angana
Nov 20, 20244 min read
What is the Cycle of Abuse?
As a follow up to the October domestic violence awareness post, I wanted to dig deeper into what happens within an abusive relationship...
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Abi Sims
Aug 5, 20245 min read
Fight, Flight, Fawn, and Freeze: Understanding Trauma Responses in Relationships
Trauma responses are natural reactions to perceived threates, shaped by our past experiences. These response (fight, flight, fawn, and...
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Abi Sims
Jun 28, 20235 min read
What's Your Love Style?: Attachment Core Pattern Therapy
At Root Counseling, we talk a lot about attachment because our attachment style is the root of our behaviors and our relationships with...
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Abi Sims
Jun 15, 20235 min read
Gottman's Sound Relationship House
Image from https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-the-sound-relationship-house/ The Sound Relationship House was created by Dr. John...
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Abi Sims
May 11, 20235 min read
Communicating with an Avoidant Partner
One of the main issues that brings couples to couples therapy is issues with their communication. Communication is one of the most...
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Abi Sims
Feb 13, 20235 min read
"We Can't Communicate": How to Create Healthy Communication in Relationships
Healthy communication is something that we're taught as children, but for adults who grew up with emotionally immature/neglectful...
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Abi Sims
Feb 6, 20235 min read
Healing from Toxic Parents
We don't get to choose our parents, and for some people, they're grateful they ended up with the parents they have. For others, their...
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Abi Sims
Jan 30, 20234 min read
What Does Trust Actually Mean in a Relationship?
When we think of trust in a relationship, the first thing that usually comes to mind is trusting that our partner will remain loyal or...
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Abi Sims
Jan 23, 20234 min read
How Attachment Issues/C-PTSD Show Up in Relationships
Have you noticed patterns in your love life that have raised some questions for you? Like why you’re drawn to a certain type of person...
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Abi Sims
Jan 2, 20234 min read
7 Principles to Turn Your Marriage Around
Marriage can be a beautiful gift filled with its own unique set of successes and challenges. It can be difficult to adjust your life to...
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Abi Sims
Nov 17, 20225 min read
Gottman's Four Horsemen: Is There One in Your Relationship?
The arguing, the heated debates, the inability to have a conversation with your partner, making you feel unheard and misunderstood: it's...
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Abi Sims
Nov 14, 20224 min read
Boundaries: Thanksgiving Edition
It's that time of year again! Families and friends gather together to celebrate community, family, and love, giving thanks for everything...
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Abi Sims
Nov 6, 20225 min read
3 Steps to Start Having Genuine Conversations
Conversations are an essential component to every relationship. Through conversing, we're able to express our stories, how we feel about...
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Abi Sims
Oct 10, 20224 min read
Boundaries: What Are They and Why Are They Important?
When you hear the word "boundaries", what comes to mind for you? Is it a concept you're familiar with? Does it bring feelings of comfort...
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Ryan Witkowski
Sep 7, 20222 min read
7 Easy Steps To Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say
We have all had experiences of not understanding how we feel about something or how we understand something. Often times there is an...
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Martha Witkowski
May 8, 20204 min read
C-PTSD: A Disease of Detachment
What is attachment style? As adults, we tend to have either a secure or insecure attachment style. When someone has a secure attachment...
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